Would you like to parent
from a calm, confident place that invites cooperation instead of
confrontation?
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Even when you know how you'd ideally like your family to
operate, it can be challenging to make those intentions a reality.
You don't want to yell at your kids, yet you find yourself yelling. You want your kids to treat you with respect yet they talk back. You want to be on the same parenting page as your partner and yet you have very different approaches with the kids. |
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Raising kids is not easy. In these classes you'll learn to set
limits on inappropriate behavior and encourage cooperation. You'll have time
to ask questions about specific challenges you are facing.
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Space is limited. Register today through EvergreenHealth.com/classes.
Choice #1 - for parents with kids ages 1 to
5
Dates: Saturday, February 7th, 9:30 AM - 4:30 PM
Location: Evergreen Hospital, 12040 NE 128th Street, Kirkland, WA Cost: $99/person or $149/couple Description: Parenting young children can be exhausting! Discover how to set limits on inappropriate behavior, respond to tantrums and whining, recognize developmentally appropriate behavior, encourage cooperation and enjoy more fun together.
Choice #2 - for parents with kids ages 6 to
12
Dates: Saturday, February 14th, 9:30 AM - 4:30 PM
Location: Evergreen Hospital, 12040 NE 128th Street, Kirkland, WA Cost: $99/person or $149/couple Description: Discover how to parent your kids now in ways that typically produce fantastic teens instead of rebellious, self-destructive teens. Find out how to set reasonable, valuable consequences for your children's misbehavior, guide your kids to resolving their own conflicts, avoid power struggles and have more fun with your kids!
Choice #3 - for parents with kids ages 13
to 18
Dates: Saturday, February 21st, 9:30 AM - 4:30 PM
Location: Evergreen Hospital, 12040 NE 128th Street, Kirkland, WA Cost: $99/person or $149/couple Description: Develop a parenting approach that matches your teen's growing independence. Discover how to move from confrontation to cooperation, set limits on inappropriate behavior, guide your teens to making healthy decisions and prepare them to successfully launch as young adults.
Choice #4 - for parents who can't attend
these classes
Learn from the comfort of your own home by taking an online parenting
class for Ages 5 and Under, 6 to 12 or 13 to 18. Start today for only
$59!
Please join me for the class that best fits your family. If you have any questions, feel free to call me at 425-770-1629.
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Invest a Day in Sharpening Your Parenting Skills
Strong Feelings Make Kids' Communication Rocky
When something is troubling your kids, expect their strong feelings to make talking about it rocky. Focusing on the poor ways your child is communicating (eye rolls, attitude) will negatively escalate the situation like it does in this video.
Instead, try to connect with your child’s underlying feeling by saying something like “Hmm … it sounds like something upset you today.” After saying this, drop the conversation unless your child wants to continue. Plan to continue the conversation later on when your child is ready to talk about it.
Instead, try to connect with your child’s underlying feeling by saying something like “Hmm … it sounds like something upset you today.” After saying this, drop the conversation unless your child wants to continue. Plan to continue the conversation later on when your child is ready to talk about it.
Teaching Kids Healthy Ways to Express Their Feelings
Your kids will experience a wide range of emotions each day. They may feel elated one moment followed by disappointment in the next moment. Perhaps they are thrilled with the red helium balloon they’ve just been given, only to experience dismay when they forget to hold on and the balloon floats away. Or they may feel terrified in asking someone to the dance and then exhilarated when that person says yes.
Part of being human is experiencing all these different emotions. How your children learn to handle their feelings will affect their success in relationships and school.
Name That Feeling!
When your kids are young, they need your help in labeling their feelings. If your child is stomping his feet and snarling as he tries to zip up his jacket, you might comment “It looks like you are frustrated with trying to zip up your jacket. I feel frustrated too when things are hard to do.” Hearing this helps your child feel noticed while also learning a word to attach to his feelings.
Developing a vocabulary for describing feelings gives children words for their emotional experiences. Understanding their own feelings then allows them to appreciate other people’s feelings. Correctly reading other people’s feelings is essential for building relationships.
A chart with faces and labels can help children see the differences in feelings. A feelings chart can be used for kids to point to the face that best matches how they are currently feeling. Pictures that go along with stories are also a wonderful way to talk about what the character might be feeling.
(finish reading "Teaching Kids Healthy Ways to Express Their Feelings" on Priceless Parenting)
Part of being human is experiencing all these different emotions. How your children learn to handle their feelings will affect their success in relationships and school.
Name That Feeling!
When your kids are young, they need your help in labeling their feelings. If your child is stomping his feet and snarling as he tries to zip up his jacket, you might comment “It looks like you are frustrated with trying to zip up your jacket. I feel frustrated too when things are hard to do.” Hearing this helps your child feel noticed while also learning a word to attach to his feelings.
Developing a vocabulary for describing feelings gives children words for their emotional experiences. Understanding their own feelings then allows them to appreciate other people’s feelings. Correctly reading other people’s feelings is essential for building relationships.
A chart with faces and labels can help children see the differences in feelings. A feelings chart can be used for kids to point to the face that best matches how they are currently feeling. Pictures that go along with stories are also a wonderful way to talk about what the character might be feeling.
(finish reading "Teaching Kids Healthy Ways to Express Their Feelings" on Priceless Parenting)
Signs That Your Kids Have Too Much Power and You Need to Step Up to Parent
Is it possible for kids to have too much power? Yes! Your household is not healthy and safe if your children are in charge instead of you. When you set firm boundaries, your kids feel secure.
If you find yourself feeling out-of-control with your kids, you may have handed them too much control. How do you know if your kids have too much power? Here are some warning behaviors:
If you find yourself feeling out-of-control with your kids, you may have handed them too much control. How do you know if your kids have too much power? Here are some warning behaviors:
- Your kids hit or push you.
- Your kids are disrespectful to you.
- Your kids do not listen to you.
- Your kids get by with inappropriate behavior.
- Your kids negotiate or whine to get what they want.
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