|Suffering, pain or loss that serves as retribution||Natural or logical consequences as a result of misbehavior|
|Belief that more severe punishment means less likely for behavior to occur again||The certainty, not the severity, of the consequence matters|
|Punishment remains the same no matter what the offense||Discipline is determined based on how to best make amends for the mistake|
|Punishment comes from outside the child||Discipline eventually comes from inside the child|
Using discipline allows you to set effective limits while maintaining loving relationships with your children.